Bringing a child into the world is one of life’s most profound journeys. Whether you’re preparing for your first baby or your fourth, understanding the different approaches to labour and delivery can help you feel more confident and in control. Among the most commonly discussed choices is whether to opt for a natural, unmedicated birth or to have an epidural for pain relief.
Let’s take an in-depth look at what happens during labour, when an epidural might be recommended, and the pros and cons of each birthing experience — so you can make an informed choice that’s best suited to your personal needs and medical situation.
Understanding Labour: The Stages of Birth
Labour doesn’t begin and end in a single moment — it’s a progression of stages that the body goes through to bring the baby into the world.
Stage One: Early Labour and Active Labour
This first stage is the longest and begins when your contractions become regular, gradually increasing in intensity and frequency. During this phase, the cervix begins to soften and open, eventually dilating to 10 cm. For first-time mothers, this stage can last anywhere from 12 to 20 hours. For second or third-time mothers, the process may be considerably shorter.
In early labour, many women can manage at home using relaxation techniques, breathing, or warm baths. As you move into active labour (around 6 cm dilation), contractions become more intense, and you may head to your birthing centre or hospital.
Stage Two: The Pushing Phase
This begins once you’re fully dilated and ends with the birth of your baby. For some mothers, this can take 30 minutes; for others, it can last 2-3 hours, especially during a first birth. You’ll work with your care provider to push during contractions and rest in between.
Stage Three: Delivery of the Placenta
After your baby is born, the placenta — which nourished your baby during pregnancy — is delivered. This typically happens within 5 to 30 minutes and is usually less intense than the birth itself.
The Role of an Epidural in Labour
An epidural is a type of regional anaesthesia that numbs the lower half of your body while allowing you to remain awake and alert. It’s administered through a small catheter inserted into your lower back by an anaesthetist and is one of the most common forms of pain relief used during labour.
When Might an Epidural Be Recommended?
- If labour is prolonged or exhausting: A long labour can physically and emotionally drain a mother. An epidural can allow her to rest, regain strength, and even sleep before pushing.
- High levels of pain or anxiety: For women experiencing intense discomfort or distress, an epidural can be a welcome relief.
- Medical interventions expected: If a forceps delivery, vacuum extraction, or caesarean section becomes likely, an epidural may already be in place and provide effective anaesthesia.
- Maternal medical conditions: For women with hypertension, heart conditions, or preeclampsia, stress and pain can increase risks. An epidural helps keep both mother and baby stable.
That said, an epidural may not be recommended or feasible in all cases.
Pros and Cons of an Epidural Birth
Pros:
- Excellent Pain Relief: Epidurals are highly effective in blocking pain from the waist down, making labour more comfortable.
- Reduced Stress: Pain relief can lower blood pressure and reduce the body’s stress response.
- Better Control in Long Labours: When exhaustion sets in, an epidural may help conserve energy for the pushing phase.
- Useful During Complicated Births: In situations requiring intervention (e.g., assisted delivery or emergency C-section), the epidural is already in place.
Cons:
- Limited Mobility: You may be confined to bed or require a catheter due to numbness.
- Labour May Slow Down: In some cases, epidurals can slow labour, increasing the likelihood of interventions like oxytocin (Pitocin) to augment contractions.
- Side Effects: A small number of women experience headaches, chills, or low blood pressure. There is also a rare risk of spinal headaches if the dura is punctured.
- Impact on Pushing: The numbing effect can make it harder to feel when and how to push effectively, possibly leading to a longer second stage of labour.
The Natural (Unmedicated) Birth Experience
Natural birth is simply giving birth without the use of medical pain relief. It may take place in a hospital, birthing centre, or even at home, depending on your risk profile and support team.
Pros of Natural Birth:
- Freedom of Movement: Being unmedicated means you can change positions, walk, use a birthing ball, or labour in water — all of which can help labour progress.
- Shorter Labour (Sometimes): There is evidence suggesting that avoiding an epidural may reduce the length of the second stage of labour.
- Greater Sense of Empowerment: Many women report feeling deeply connected to the birthing experience and proud of their body’s ability to deliver naturally.
- Immediate Postpartum Response: No medication means there’s no need to “wait for it to wear off,” and you can move, walk, and hold your baby straight away.
Cons of Natural Birth:
- Intense Pain: Labour pain varies from person to person, and for some, it may become overwhelming or lead to panic if not managed well.
- Requires Preparation: Natural birth often involves learning breathing techniques, hypnobirthing, and building strong mental resilience.
- Possible Need for Emergency Medication: Even with the best intentions, situations may arise where medical pain relief becomes necessary.
Natural Pain Management Techniques to Consider
If you’re aiming for a natural birth, here are some popular non-medical techniques to help manage labour discomfort:
- Hypnobirthing: Uses affirmations, guided visualisations, and breathing to stay calm and in control.
- Water Birth: Labouring in warm water can significantly reduce the perception of pain.
- Massage and Counterpressure: Gentle touch, acupressure, and massage during contractions can offer great relief.
- TENS Machine: A small device that sends mild electrical impulses to your lower back, interfering with pain signals.
- Breathing Techniques: Patterned breathing helps you stay grounded and regulate tension during contractions.
How to Decide: Making the Right Choice for You
Ultimately, there’s no one-size-fits-all answer. Every woman’s labour experience is unique — and so is her pain threshold, health condition, and birthing preference.
Here’s what can help:
- Attend antenatal classes that explore both natural and medicated options.
- Discuss your birth plan with your doctor or midwife, but keep it flexible — births are known for unpredictability.
- Create a support system: Your partner, doula, or birth coach can help you stay calm and advocate for your needs.
Remember, there’s no “better” way — the best birth is one where you feel informed, supported, and safe.
References & Further Reading:
- NHS: Pain relief in labour
- American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists: Epidural Analgesia in Labour
- Parents.com: Labour with or without Epidural
- The Guardian: Epidural reduces risk of serious complications
This blog is written by Sonali Shivlani, Pregnancy & Parenting Consultant with over 20 years of experience